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EMOTIONS : “strong feeling of any kind, excitement or disturbance of the mind or the feelings…”

Emotions can be FEAR, JEALOUSY, LOVE, JOY, ENVY, RAGE.…. and as the dictionary tells us , they can lead to excitement or disturb us!

IT DEPENDS ON HOW WE ARE GOING TO SIGNIFICATE THESE EMOTIONS!

One example : I feel jealous

a) I can significate that as positive :  as i feel LOVE  for the object of my jealousy ( my boy or girlfriend, my dad, my mom or my friend…)  I don’t want or afraid  to lose his / her love for me. That’s a legitimate state of being…

or b) I can significate that feeling as  “bad” , as making me “feel low, weak”  so I  can start to be agressive, possessive and annoying with the person that makes me feel that way.

Some people don’t like to feel in-love because it makes them feel without total control of the situation and because they feel exposed to the beloved!

Jealousy as well as envy as rage…and all the so called “bad boys of family Feelings” can be used in a POSITIVE and CONSTRUCTIVE way. We have to understand WHY and WHAT FOR they are appearing to us. Check this comics from WWW.XKCD.COM

HE IS GREAT!


E como EDUCAÇÃO: ” processo de desenvolvimento da capacidade física, intelectual e moral da criança”

Ter acesso a EDUCAÇÃO é um direito e um dever de TODOS.

Na hemofilia, recomendo sempre (e sou chata de tão repetitiva) APRENDER a explicar de uma maneira simples O QUE É HEMOFILIA !!?

Acho que se uma pessoa SABE SE EXPRESSAR tranquilamente, com segurança à respeito da sua condição de saúde, ela consegue MAIS respeito e mais amigos também.

Uma pessoa EDUCADA sobre si mesma transmite auto-respeito, e se sente mais SEGURA para conseguir o que quer.card-17.jpg

o QUE é HEMOFILIA? pergunto sempre para CHECAR com meus pacientes…

cada um responde e aprimora a sua resposta a cada vez, e a cada vez vejo como eles FLUEM e se sentem mais à vontade! 🙂

Hemofilia é assim: “QUANDO ME MACHUCO E SANGRO, DEMORO MAIS TEMPO DO QUE VOCÊ para parar de sangrar….falta alguma coisa no meu sangue que se chama Fator….não é bom para meu corpo se demoro  para  auto- infundir o fator. Preciso disso para coagular e sarar mais rapidamente….”




About frederica cassis

My name is Frederica Dillen CASSIS, born of a Belgium mother and an Egyptian father, on the 3rd of January 1966 in Brussels, Belgium. I´ve travelled a lot, lived in many countries. Brazil is my seventh country and i live in Sao Paulo for 19 years now. Graduated in Clinical Psychology in 1991, I specialized in Junguian Psychology and in Hemophilia since then. LATEST PROJECTS: 1) Launching IN-HEMOACTION flash cards, where I added new topics like Inhibitors and their different treatments, physiotherapy and a some playful activities like video games! 2) HERO (Hemophilia Experiences Results and Opportunities) sponsored by Novo Nordisk since 2009, exploring through qualitative and quantitative analysis the psychosocial issues involving People with hemophilia, their carers and the health professionals in the treatment process. check this project in my blog www.blood4.wordpress.com Now, HERO is in Brazil! soon the results will be available. 2) P-TET (Pediatric Thrombosis Educational Tool) flash cards in evolution stage, for kids on anti-coagulant treatment...inspired on IN-HEMOACTION flashcards success. 3) I am a co-author along with psychologist Irene Fuchs and Edward Kuebler of a booklet called "Communication, love and sexuality for people with hemophilia, carriers and family" 4) an on going process of a systematic review for the Cochrane Collaboration about "psychological interventions for people with hemophilia and their families" On a more personal level i have 3 three great not anymore children :) Danaê 24, Rubi 18 and Iggy 15) and i love to jogg, dance and read. To walk and look for shells on a beach too and I discover that i love deserts...:)

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