Se tivesse que escolher uma cor para a RAIVA colocaría o VERMELHO.

Más , quem incorpora legal o momento PICO quando sentimos  raiva e ira ,é o Hulk!

Eu assistía fascinada o seriado nos anos 70/80 e achava o máximo quando o dr. Bruce tentava se controlar para não machucar alguém ou destruir alguma coisa…más não dava!!! 🙂 a raiva dele também era sempre COM RAZÂO!!!  al final, ele era uma vítima, um fugitivo, um não amado e um defensor público!hulk

No filme recente 2008? achei interessante rever para analisar mais a questão da RAIVA: perceberam que, quanto mais o Dr Bruce “quer tirar dele mesmo o hulk, esse lado monstruoso” menos ele se da bem?? e cada vez que ele se aproxima do trabalho de se aceitar com este problema, quanto MAIS ele escuta a namorada, olha para ela, ele se humaniza?? ou seja , temos que aceitar nossas dificuldades para poder transforma-las, não adianta projetar nos outros a causa de nossa raiva, não adianta dizer eu vou TIRAR isto de mim! volta contra nos 😦

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I used to love the hulk  episodes when I was a kid…the amazing thing about him was the transformation: i understood him so well! But I would have chosen another color for rage: RED not green! whatever…the man/monster was a hero and the conflict between the beast and human being was obvious. Nowadays; I look at the movie and my vision is still sympathizing with him, BUT I ALSO LEARNED THAT if we want like Dr Bruce to ” take it out of  me” refering to the HULK side, we cannot! the more we deny or detest our destructive or rageous aspects, the more they control us.! Rage is a  consequence of anger…and we get angry…and sometimes it is very well to get angry. We can´t be like soft as a banana always.! but yes, we must learn to ADMINISTRATE our rage, and not destroy everything. And this task requires a lot of ENERGY, but at the end  we feel much better when we can put the person in her place without calling him names, or smashing something…

About frederica cassis

My name is Frederica Dillen CASSIS, born of a Belgium mother and an Egyptian father, on the 3rd of January 1966 in Brussels, Belgium. I´ve travelled a lot, lived in many countries. Brazil is my seventh country and i live in Sao Paulo for 19 years now. Graduated in Clinical Psychology in 1991, I specialized in Junguian Psychology and in Hemophilia since then. LATEST PROJECTS: 1) Launching IN-HEMOACTION flash cards, where I added new topics like Inhibitors and their different treatments, physiotherapy and a some playful activities like video games! 2) HERO (Hemophilia Experiences Results and Opportunities) sponsored by Novo Nordisk since 2009, exploring through qualitative and quantitative analysis the psychosocial issues involving People with hemophilia, their carers and the health professionals in the treatment process. check this project in my blog Now, HERO is in Brazil! soon the results will be available. 2) P-TET (Pediatric Thrombosis Educational Tool) flash cards in evolution stage, for kids on anti-coagulant treatment...inspired on IN-HEMOACTION flashcards success. 3) I am a co-author along with psychologist Irene Fuchs and Edward Kuebler of a booklet called "Communication, love and sexuality for people with hemophilia, carriers and family" 4) an on going process of a systematic review for the Cochrane Collaboration about "psychological interventions for people with hemophilia and their families" On a more personal level i have 3 three great not anymore children :) Danaê 24, Rubi 18 and Iggy 15) and i love to jogg, dance and read. To walk and look for shells on a beach too and I discover that i love deserts...:)

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