N like NO : ” word used to indicate that something is not allowed”

FOR KIDS with hemophilia, Von Willebrand…. when parents have to restrain their child’s impulses to jump, play, run…

Remember : give your children FEW “No” and a lot of ” YES” options!

if he can’t play outside yet because he is recovering from a bleeding, offer instead another activity explaining that he has to learn to be PATIENT and give his body TIME TO HEAL. (he can be 1, 2 , 3 years old….it doesn’t matter if he doesn’t understand the “word” Patience, HE WILL understand your “tone of voice, your body language” that say “be patient, you must heal first” 😉

if the NOs are because you are afraid as a parent that he’ ll get hurt, please seek for support with a care agent at your center! Your kid must enjoy his childhood and MOVE HIS BODY.

Always give alternatives but be firm when you really have to say the word NO.

N como NEGAR : ” dizer que não é verdadeiro, recusar”

é muito fácil falar “Não” para uma criança que tem problemas de sangramentos, a razão mais óbvia é que ele pode MACHUCAR. ! Más nem sempre é correto PROIBIR, recusar que ele experimente uma atividade esportiva nova, ou que ele brinque com um amigo batendo uma bola… é saudável que ELE POSSA EXERCITARSE, APRENDER A CONTROLAR SEUS IMPULSOS desde pequeno.

DIGAM MENOS “NÃO”s”  MAIS “SIM s” para seu filho oferecendo outras alternativas para as coisas que ele não pode fazer. Por ex. Não para jogar uma partida de futebol , SIM para bater uma bola com o pai ou um amigo, não para pular de um sofá , Sim para dançar!

About frederica cassis

My name is Frederica Dillen CASSIS, born of a Belgium mother and an Egyptian father, on the 3rd of January 1966 in Brussels, Belgium. I´ve travelled a lot, lived in many countries. Brazil is my seventh country and i live in Sao Paulo for 19 years now. Graduated in Clinical Psychology in 1991, I specialized in Junguian Psychology and in Hemophilia since then. LATEST PROJECTS: 1) Launching IN-HEMOACTION flash cards, where I added new topics like Inhibitors and their different treatments, physiotherapy and a some playful activities like video games! 2) HERO (Hemophilia Experiences Results and Opportunities) sponsored by Novo Nordisk since 2009, exploring through qualitative and quantitative analysis the psychosocial issues involving People with hemophilia, their carers and the health professionals in the treatment process. check this project in my blog www.blood4.wordpress.com Now, HERO is in Brazil! soon the results will be available. 2) P-TET (Pediatric Thrombosis Educational Tool) flash cards in evolution stage, for kids on anti-coagulant treatment...inspired on IN-HEMOACTION flashcards success. 3) I am a co-author along with psychologist Irene Fuchs and Edward Kuebler of a booklet called "Communication, love and sexuality for people with hemophilia, carriers and family" 4) an on going process of a systematic review for the Cochrane Collaboration about "psychological interventions for people with hemophilia and their families" On a more personal level i have 3 three great not anymore children :) Danaê 24, Rubi 18 and Iggy 15) and i love to jogg, dance and read. To walk and look for shells on a beach too and I discover that i love deserts...:)

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