Paixão ou razão?

Na paixão sentimos e pensamos..más de um jeito DIFERENTE !:) na verdade não pensamos em muitos aspectos ao mesmo tempo, pensamos só no objeto DESEJADO. Somos “cegos” porque a luz do outro é muito forte, é um flash permanente, tudo é clarissímo, tão claro que não vemos nada. No obstante a gente não liga para esta falta de RAZAO momentânea porque é muito gostoso sentir, sentir ao máximo!

Na razão, sentimos e pensamos de um jeito mais abrangente: todos os elementos  (ou vários) entram em jogo, é momento de estratégia! Todos têm seu valor, não só eu ou a pessoa que nos apaixona. Traçamos um plano, curtimos o projeto, seus momentos altos e baixos…é emocionante também. E, enxergamos as luzes, as sombras e meia-sombras…

O amor, AMAR alguém, tem a ver em juntar os 2 : Paixão com Razão…um estimulando, ofuscando as vezes, o outro direcionando, contemporizando. Uma bela



This video is great  because it shows all the phases of passion:  when we are IN-LOVE we experiment  lots of different feelings. In the heat of Passion we think differently..yes we do think! but it is a focused, one sided thinking…we are one (we want to) with the object of our passion and it seems that nobody else exists.

Reason is another state which can be particularly intense and a source of pleasure too! when we can think, we can see all the orchestra, with its different musicians and instruments..we can organize and considering all the elements available , we can do a strategy, a project.

I believe that LOVE, or  when we love we can join the sublime state of passion with the good sense of reason..we can let  both of them act in ourself knowing that when we get blind by the beauty of Eros we will soon let Reason discuss with us to see more that the glowing light. Shadows and tones of grey are part of love.

About frederica cassis

My name is Frederica Dillen CASSIS, born of a Belgium mother and an Egyptian father, on the 3rd of January 1966 in Brussels, Belgium. I´ve travelled a lot, lived in many countries. Brazil is my seventh country and i live in Sao Paulo for 19 years now. Graduated in Clinical Psychology in 1991, I specialized in Junguian Psychology and in Hemophilia since then. LATEST PROJECTS: 1) Launching IN-HEMOACTION flash cards, where I added new topics like Inhibitors and their different treatments, physiotherapy and a some playful activities like video games! 2) HERO (Hemophilia Experiences Results and Opportunities) sponsored by Novo Nordisk since 2009, exploring through qualitative and quantitative analysis the psychosocial issues involving People with hemophilia, their carers and the health professionals in the treatment process. check this project in my blog Now, HERO is in Brazil! soon the results will be available. 2) P-TET (Pediatric Thrombosis Educational Tool) flash cards in evolution stage, for kids on anti-coagulant treatment...inspired on IN-HEMOACTION flashcards success. 3) I am a co-author along with psychologist Irene Fuchs and Edward Kuebler of a booklet called "Communication, love and sexuality for people with hemophilia, carriers and family" 4) an on going process of a systematic review for the Cochrane Collaboration about "psychological interventions for people with hemophilia and their families" On a more personal level i have 3 three great not anymore children :) Danaê 24, Rubi 18 and Iggy 15) and i love to jogg, dance and read. To walk and look for shells on a beach too and I discover that i love deserts...:)

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